An interesting and useful article by Dr Michael Mosley in January http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-42788280  In my experience, people who come to me for weight loss often have anxiety, stress and issues and of course hypnotherapy treatment then must also involve addressing these unmet needs as well as changing eating habits.  Impact of poor sleep is more significant than most people recognise.

Not that it is a paper that I personally would choose to read but journalist Bel Mooney describes how after trying different insomnia treatments over her long years as an insomniac, hypnotherapy has made the difference.  A useful read for anyone who is wondering if hypnotherapy could help with their own sleepless nights. Overcoming insomnia is not as hopeless as it might seem.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-5596195/Hypnotherapy-helping-beat-chronic-insomnia.html

To smokers, vaping seems to be a healthier alternative to smoking cigarettes (though many still vap and smoke!) but in my view, the truth that E-cigarettes are just the latest in a long line of products that take advantage of the fact that smokers are desperate to quit – in fact, a 2011 study from the US Center for Disease Control and Prevention showed: 70% of smokers want to quit…….56% tried to quit……But only a paltry 6% managed to quit!

Why is that? I think it’s because the most used options available – going cold turkey, nicotine gum and patches as well as e-cigarettes – all share the same fundamental flaw, one that as a hypnotherapist I am very much aware of. The problem is none of them address where addiction really lies – the unconscious mind!

Influencing the unconscious mind for the better is what hypnotherapy is all about. That’s why I know that instead of buying expensive and sometimes explosive products in an attempt to quit, a smoker could visit me and quickly untangle the desire to smoke from their unconscious – freeing them to live a healthier, wealthier, longer life.

Want to stop being addicted to nicotine? My 2 session stop smoking hypnotherapy service now costs just £200.

Recent Research by the USA Centre For Disease Control has shown that the following make a massive difference if you want to live longer and be free of chronic diseases:

• No smoking;
• Consuming little or no alcohol;
• Engaging in regular physical activity;
• Maintaining normal body weight;
• Getting enough sleep.

Seems obvious when you read the list however in 2013, they estimate that only 6.3% of Americans fulfill all five of these health-promoting behaviours. Now, I don’t know about you but I would be surprised if the figure for the UK was not as equally low and alarming!

The good news is that hypnotherapy can help someone establish and maintain each and all of these top 5 behaviours – so if you want to improve your health just give me a call on 07976 701223 to discuss how hypnotherapy with me can make this possible. All calls are in confidence and without obligation to have treatment, in other words it is a free, private consultation.

I came across this interesting article on the reasons why being human is better than being right (a 5 minute read) and thought it would be helpful to share. It is always helpful to remember to remind oneself that we are far from perfect and the desire to be right can limit us much more than we think.

https://medium.com/personal-growth/why-its-better-to-be-human-than-to-be-right-4deecd5b9799

I guess I ought to give myself a pat on the back! I have just learned that I am now listed as one of the Top 3 Hypnotherapy providers in Sheffield. This recognition come from an independent listing company whose review team use a 50-Point Inspection which includes everything from checking reputation, history, complaints, ratings, satisfaction, trust and general excellence. This listing site is free –  I do not pay for a listing or review and they display only businesses that are verified by their people since customers deserve only the best.

To view the listing listing please click here – https://threebestrated.co.uk/hypnotherapy-in-sheffield

The recent publicity given to the alarming rise in depression and other mental health issues among children in the UK reminded me to share this interesting article on a study which showed how Mindfulness can produce improvements of up to 20 per cent in symptoms of anxiety and depression – not quite the 80% + improvements I get with my hypnotherapy for children but worthwhile having nonetheless.

An Article in the Times by Barbara McMahon, January 2014

A new technique that helps children to concentrate and cope with anxiety is being introduced in some schools

The tinkling of a bell reverberates around the classroom as a group of children close their eyes and focus on their breathing. “All your thoughts and feelings . . . let them pass through your head like clouds in the sky,” says the instructor. There is fidgeting, muffled giggles and a few eyes peek open but some of the children manage to sit still throughout the two-minute exercise. “I felt like moving but I didn’t,” an 11-year-old girl declares triumphantly. The youngsters in the classroom in California are practising mindfulness, which trains the brain to think in the moment and helps to promote physical and mental calm. Sandwiched between spelling tests and arithmetic lessons, mindfulness is proving to be a remarkably effective way of helping many youngsters improve their levels of concentration, manage their emotions and deal with anxiety.

With its roots in Buddhist thinking and meditation practice, mindfulness entered the mainstream thanks largely to the efforts of Jon Kabat-Zinn, a professor of medicine. In the 1970s, he pioneered its use as a secular and cost-effective way of helping some patients deal with chronic pain and depression. Forty years later, a report published this week found that mindfulness can produce improvements of up to 20 per cent in symptoms of anxiety and depression. The business world has also embraced mindfulness as a way of enhancing innovation and creativity, and helping workers cope with stress. Google, for example, teaches its employees to “search inside” themselves. Adults too, practise it at home or in yoga classes. Now it is being integrated into education.

Eline Snel, a mother and grandmother, lives in the Netherlands and has been developing mindfulness programmes for children for more than 20 years. She has written Sitting Still Like a Frog, published in the UK this month, which is full of practices that can help children calm down, become more focused, fall asleep more easily, alleviate worry and manage anger.

“A lot of children are very restless and can’t sit still for a minute. They react to all kinds of stimuli and that can be a real problem,” Snel says. ”Many children are extremely insecure, thinking that they are not cool or good enough. They’re also under pressure from their parents and their teachers to achieve in school and in sport and in music lessons. Most of them are getting up in the morning with these kinds of worries.”

Children’s nervous systems and brains are still in the process of developing and are even more sensitive to the negative effects of stress. Mindfulness exercises are suitable for all kids age 5 and up who want to calm the churning thoughts in their heads, learn how to feel and understand their emotions, and improve their concentration, Snel says. “It also helps them to free themselves from behavioural patterns that do not serve them well, such as bullying, being withdrawn, being selfish or trying to please others.”

Most mindfulness courses in schools are tailored to different age groups and last eight to ten weeks. Children under 12 will probably have a half-hour training session once a week, while adolescents have an hourly session. “The children learn to pause for a moment, catch their breath and get a sense of what they need at that particular moment in time,” Snel says. “The beautiful thing is that they really have a longing for some inner rest and peace. They have a half an hour session or an hour and immediately they are saying: ‘Can we do this again?’” Parents who see their kids becoming more centred and calm want to know how to carry on the practice, which is one of the reasons Snel wrote the book. Other publications, such as Little Flower Yoga for Kids by Jennifer Cohen Harper, also teach mindfulness and yoga as a way of helping children improve attention and emotional balance.

Children, explains Kabat-Zinn in the foreword in Sitting Still Like a Frog, which was a hit in the US last year, are naturally mindful because they live in the moment and are not overly concerned about the past or the future. “The most important thing we can do is not kill that natural quality of openness and presence, but reinforce it and encourage it to continue to develop,” Zinn notes. A sense of self-discovery and appreciation for one’s own mind and body also gives children a sense of wellbeing and belonging, and helps them develop pro-social behaviours such as kindness, empathy and compassion.

Snel says that the method has also been shown to reduce bullying. Kindness meditation, in which children are encouraged to be “friends” to themselves and to be more balanced and open to others, spills over into the playground, making them kinder and less confrontational places.

Each day, the children and their teachers take a few minutes to go over what they have learnt, so that mindfulness sinks in. “It might be as simple as a teacher instructing everyone to eat an apple or an orange in silence, just taking the time for the class to be quiet,” Snel says.

Mindfulness, which first emerged in schools about ten years ago, is spreading steadily worldwide. The non-profit Garrison Institute in New York is one of many organisations in America that has helped train thousands of students and teachers in mindfulness and contemplative learning. “There’s been a stunning explosion of interest around this kind of work,” says Adi Flesher, a director at the institute, who says mindfulness reduces stress and burnout, and helps children feel more in charge of their lives. Midge Kinder, a mindfulness yoga teacher, runs an educational consultancy in Pennsylvania that is at the forefront of spreading the message in schools in the US. Children do not have a lot of time to “just be,” she says, and have difficulty navigating the multiple and complex stresses they face. “We’re helping children to take care of themselves and it is something that they can take with them into adulthood.”

Kinder still remembers fondly a moment during one of her pilot courses. “We were giving children a chance to reflect and one child of 9 or 10 said, ‘When I came in, I felt all dark inside’,” she recalls. “She held up her thumb and forefinger and made a little bit of space between them and then she said: ‘Now there’s only this much darkness inside.’ That was very gratifying.”

In the UK, the Mindfulness in Schools Project, a non-profit scheme that was established seven years ago, has run courses in 500 to 800 schools and is still expanding its services. “Teaching mindfulness in the classroom reduces children’s behaviour problems, improves general feelings of wellbeing and improves their ability to pay attention,” says Claire Kelly, the project’s spokeswoman and a mindfulness practitioner. ”It’s giving young people the crucial tools they need to deal with whatever life throws at them. They find it empowering.”

Teachers trained in mindfulness have also reported reaping benefits from the practice. Research shows they have lower blood pressure, greater compassion and empathy, and fewer negative emotions.

Mindfulness is not a quick fix, Snel warns: it has to be practised and repeated. “The important thing is not to be too focused on an outcome or results. We don’t want mindfulness to be another pressure on children,” she says. “We want children to see the benefits of listening to their minds and hearts, and of having some degree of control over their inner world.”
Sitting Still like a Frog (Shambala Publications, £16.99) by Eline Snel comes with a CD of exercises

The therapist’s simple relaxation techniques help with everything from concentration to exam stress to sleeping

Exercises for the under-12s

Sitting Still Like A Frog
This is a basic meditation exercise that improves concentration and will help your child to be less impulsive. 
Sit with your child in a quiet place and introduce the exercise as follows: “A frog is a remarkable creature. It is aware of everything that is happening around it but the frog tends not to react right away. The frog sits still and breathes, preserving its energy instead of getting carried away by all the ideas that keep popping into its head. The frog sits still while it breathes. Its frog tummy rises and falls. Anything a frog can do, you can do too.” Encourage your child to just sit and breathe. Children generally like not having to do anything for a while and they will begin to feel relaxed.

Your Personal Weather Report
This helps your child to understand his or her interior world and to acknowledge both good and bad feelings. 
Sit your child down comfortably somewhere, tell him or her to close or half close their eyes and take some time to determine how they are feeling right now. Ask: what is the weather like inside you? Do you feel relaxed and sunny inside? Or does it feel rainy and overcast? Is there a storm raging perhaps? What do you notice?

Once your child has summoned the weather report that best describes his or her feelings, tell them to just let it be … there is no need to feel or do anything differently. Later the weather will be different again but right now this is how things are. Moods change. They blow over. There is no need to take any action. What a relief.

Training Your Attention Muscle
This helps to keep the chatter in your child’s mind at bay and lets them experience reality without interference.
For younger children: On their way to school ask them to remember five things that they see (a tree, a traffic sign, an unusual house, the entrance to your school, the classroom door). What do they look like? Look at the colours, shapes, spots and stripes. By looking without judging whether something is pretty or ugly, tell your child that they will see more of the world around them.

For older children: invite them to pick up a twig and draw it on a piece of paper. Draw exactly what they see and not what they think they are seeing. Do this a couple of days in a row and they will begin to see more and more of the twig while the drawing is becoming more and more accurate.

The Little Box of Worries
This is a calming strategy.
Before your child turns in for the night, ask if he or she is upset about anything. Thinking about these worries (instead of not thinking about them) will reveal what they are all about. Have a box at hand that might be homemade and nicely decorated. These thoughts can be put into the box. The lid comes off, the worries go in, and the lid goes back on. Your child can look at the little box of worries somewhere on a shelf in the room – from a distance, so the child can see they are no longer in his or her head.

The Wishing Tree
This is a visualisation technique that introduces children to the process of patience, trust and letting go.
Tell your child to sit up straight and comfortably, close their eyes and tune in to their breathing. When they are ready, they can go to a beautiful place in nature. It is nice and quiet in this place, safe and pleasant. They will see an old tree, large and solid, with wide branches and bright green leaves. Look closely and they will see white doves sitting on the branches of the tree. Tell your child to take his or her time and to let a wish surface of its own accord. It can be a feeling or an idea or something they have never talked about. He or she can call out softly, without anyone hearing, for one of the doves and let it sit on their hand. They can tell the dove their heart’s deepest desire. It will understand. Watch the dove fly off on its way to fulfil their heart’s desire. Not today or tomorrow but sometime in the future. Not exactly the way they wanted it but often even better than expected. Tell your child to have faith and let go of the wish and all the accompanying images. They can calmly open their eyes and remain seated for a while.